Published Nov 29, 2021

Dr. David Buss: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in Short & Long Term | Huberman Lab #48

Explore the complexities of human romantic relationships with Dr. David Buss as he delves into the science behind mate selection, infidelity, jealousy, and the dark triad traits, revealing the evolutionary psychology driving short and long-term partnerships.
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  • Dark Triad Traits

    The dark triad consists of three personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy, each with distinct behavioral expressions. explains that narcissism involves grandiosity and entitlement, while Machiavellianism is characterized by manipulative social strategies. Psychopathy, on the other hand, is marked by a lack of empathy, making individuals with these traits particularly dangerous in social contexts 1.

    The dark triad consists of three personality characteristics so narcissism, machiavellianism, and psychopathy.

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    These traits are not categorical but exist on a continuum, with men generally scoring higher, especially in psychopathy 2.

       

    Relationship Impact

    Dark triad traits significantly impact relationships, often leading to manipulation and violence. and discuss how individuals high in these traits are adept at seduction and deception, often engaging in sexual harassment and coercion 2. These individuals are also prone to using mate retention tactics, such as psychological manipulation and denigration, to control their partners 3.

    It's important in the mating context because those who are high on dark triad traits tend to be sexual deceivers.

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    Such behaviors are predictors of intimate partner violence, with a small subset of men committing the majority of these acts 2.

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