What to do if you CAN'T FINISH?! | Delayed Ejaculation ft. Dr. Alex Tatem

Definition

Delayed ejaculation is a condition characterized by the inability to achieve orgasm within a reasonable period of time, despite adequate sexual stimulation. Alex Tatem, a men's sexual health expert, explains that this condition involves four key elements of the male sexual experience: sensation, erection, orgasm, and ejaculation. He emphasizes that delayed ejaculation is more accurately described as delayed orgasm, as it primarily affects the ability to reach climax 1. Rena Malik highlights the distress it can cause, noting, "You're excited, you're in the mood, and you just can't finish" 1.

   

Causes & Prevalence

The causes of delayed ejaculation can be both acquired and lifelong, with various factors contributing to its prevalence. Alex Tatem notes that acquired cases may arise from changes in sexual practices or prolonged separation from a partner, while lifelong cases are present from the onset of sexual activity 2. He also points out that age-related changes in dopamine perception can make orgasm harder to achieve 2. Despite its lower prevalence compared to premature ejaculation, affecting only 1-5% of men, delayed ejaculation can be distressing for those affected. Rena Malik adds that partners often mistakenly blame themselves, exacerbating the issue 2.