Give me a real time gratitude practice to do right now

Here is a real-time gratitude practice you can do right now based on insights from Andrew Huberman:

1. Find a Quiet Space: Sit comfortably and take a few deep breaths, emphasizing exhales to help calm yourself.

2. Recall a Gratitude Story: Think of a specific instance where someone genuinely thanked you or a story where someone received help from another. Ensure this story is meaningful and emotionally resonant for you.

3. Engage Emotionally: Spend 1-2 minutes vividly recalling the emotions and details of this story. Focus on the positive feelings associated with receiving or observing gratitude.

4. Write Bullet Points: If it helps, jot down key points about the story – what the struggle was, the help provided, and how it made you feel. Use these notes to deepen your emotional connection to the moment.

5. Repeat Regularly: Practice this exercise three times a week, preferably in the morning or before bed, but any time that suits you is fine.

This method has been shown to be highly effective in shifting neural circuits towards more well-being and motivation, with significant benefits even from a brief 60-second practice 1 2 3.

Expanding on the gratitude story practice, Andrew Huberman emphasizes the importance of selecting a specific, meaningful narrative to enhance the effectiveness of your gratitude practice. Here’s a detailed guide based on his recommendations:

Key Elements of an Effective Gratitude Practice

1. Narrative Selection:

   • Personal Experience: Use a story where you received genuine thanks for something you did.
   • Observational Story: Alternatively, focus on a story where you observed someone else being genuinely thanked or helped.
   • Ensure the story resonates deeply with you emotionally, regardless of whether it mirrors your personal experiences. 1 2

2. Engagement with the Story:

   • Recall the Story: Think of the details – the struggle, the help provided, and the emotional transformation. This can be done mentally or by writing it down in bullet points.
   • Emotional Connection: Dive into the feelings associated with the story. Reflect on how it made you feel or how it impacted the person receiving help. 3 4
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3. Practice Duration and Frequency:

   • Short Sessions: Practices can be as brief as one to five minutes. Such a short time commitment makes it accessible and easy to repeat.
   • Frequency: Aim to do this practice at least three times a week. The time of day is flexible, but consistency is key. 5 6

4. Scientific Basis:

   • Receiving Gratitude: Studies show that receiving gratitude is more potent in positive shifts than giving it. This activates neural circuits linked to positive emotions and social bonding.
   • Repeated Practice: Regular engagement with the gratitude narrative can lead to neuroplasticity, making these neural circuits more easily activated over time. 7 4

How to Implement

1. Prepare:

   • Find a Quiet Space: Sit comfortably and take deep breaths to calm your mind.
   • Choose Your Story: Select a meaningful gratitude story either from your life or one that you've heard or read about.

2. Engage Emotionally:

   • Write down or mentally note key points: the challenge faced, the received help, and the emotional impact.
   • Reflect deeply on these points, feeling the gratitude and positive emotions associated with the story.

3. Practice:

   • Spend 1-5 minutes reflecting on this story and feeling the associated emotions.
   • Repeat this practice three times a week at your preferred time of day.

Benefits

Adopting this scientifically grounded gratitude practice can positively impact your brain’s neural circuits, improve your mood, reduce anxiety, and enhance overall wellbeing 2 4.

By focusing on genuine experiences of receiving or observing gratitude, you can effectively tap into the power of positive social interactions and their benefits on mental and physical health.