My question is how do I suggest my step sil remove his 8yr old son from his phone? Right now he has unlimited access to tv,(one big screen in his bedroom) phone, his own iPad & unlimited access to the internet. He makes F in every subject but his school is a no child left behind. I suggest a program called XLO as you can see below
suggest my husband suggest to his son for his grandson. I have 2 lines of thought: 1. My step sil should pay for it and therefore if it is costing him something he will make sure my grandson will do the tudoring. 2. If we pay for it, my step sil will most likely get it.
I have done Moma Bears a study through my church & we had a guest speaker from home land security. He was open to what it had to say & went to a seminar w/us There is no mother in the picture as she abandoned them last year-there has been no physical abuse that I am aware of no mental abuse I have seen. My step sil is in his 40's. I have 5 other grandchildren who are graduates from H.S. & 4 in college w/not much effort on their parents part. Please help!
Loving Jesus
Diane Griffith
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It sounds like you're dealing with a challenging situation regarding your stepson's use of technology and its impact on his academic performance. Here's some advice based on information from the :
Tech-Free Zones: Establishing tech-free areas or times, particularly during meals and before bedtime, can foster better family connections and improve sleep quality 12. This may help your grandson focus and feel more connected to the family without the distractions of screens.
Setting Boundaries: Creating clear rules around device use is crucial. For instance, some families find it effective to have all family members, including adults, put devices away during specific times like meals or homework sessions. Parents can set an example by adhering to the same rules, as consistency is key 34.
Encourage Outdoor and Free Play: It's important for children to engage in outdoor activities and unstructured play, which can provide the adventures and independence they need for healthy development 5. This can help reduce screen time effectively.
Building a Support Network: Consider collaborating with other parents who are facing similar challenges. A collective approach can provide support and make it easier to enforce these changes without children feeling isolated from their peers 4.
Delaying Social Media: If your grandson is using social media, delaying its use can be beneficial. Many experts recommend keeping children off social media until at least 16 to avoid negative impacts on mental health 5.
Discussing these strategies with your husband, and possibly including your stepson in the conversation, can create a more unified approach. Each of these steps can aid in reducing screen time, potentially improving your grandson's academic performance while fostering a healthier relationship with technology.