No Mercy / No Malice: Office Hours

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Emotional Journey
opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of becoming a parent, sharing his initial fears and anxieties. He candidly admits to being "totally freaked out" with his first child, worried about financial stability and relationship dynamics 1. Despite the initial shock, Scott emphasizes that these feelings are natural and part of the journey.
I did not love this thing when it came out. People talk about you're just instantly in love with it. I fell in love with my boys over time, but it just looked like a science experiment to me.
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He highlights that happiness follows a "smile arc," where life becomes more rewarding as one adjusts to the new responsibilities 1.
Father's Role
In discussing the role of fathers, underscores the importance of supporting one's partner and managing household economics. He humorously notes that fathers are often "mostly useless" in the early stages, with their primary role being to ensure the mother's well-being 1. Scott advises fathers to be actively involved in night feedings and to help alleviate the stress of parenting.
I think your role is to be supportive of your wife and do the night feedings, make sure that your wife gets some sleep and recognize that having kids is really hard and stressful, especially initially.
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He also suggests that having more than one child can enhance family dynamics, reducing pressure on a single child and enriching the household experience 1.
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